[deely3]

But how can we logically separate "trying to offend" and "not trying to offend" stances here, on a social platform, by reading two or three sentences comment written by some anonymous?

[karaterobot]

Assume good intent and interpret as generously as possible. I believe some version of these common sense notions are even in the site guidelines for Hacker News.

[DiggyJohnson]

By assuming others are not trying to offend, and practicing apathy when we suspect they are. Offense is not violence.

[nomdep]

Easy. You always asume “not trying to offend” unless there is strong evidence to the contrary

[twodave]

You shouldn't try. Assume the best and move on. This is just basic manners.