[kitsunesoba]

> A common example here on HN would be the excitement regarding working from home. I get it, I love it too. But let's not dismiss that this further tilts things into a flat, isolated, touchless society. You want it, but it's still really bad for you.

Speaking for myself, yes I want to work from home, but I don't want a "flat, isolated, touchless society". In fact, regular face to face interactions with others is something I'd like more of, but I'd prefer that the majority of that be outside the workplace.

Don't get me wrong, everywhere I've worked I've loved most of my coworkers and got along with them well enough, but the workplace being a context that can't be opted out of by virtue of being one's livelihood can make it restrictive in ways that I'm not sure is healthy when serving as the place for the bulk of socialization.

Unfortunately building social groups outside of work is difficult and gets increasingly so with age.

[Wowfunhappy]

> In fact, regular face to face interactions with others is something I'd like more of, but I'd prefer that the majority of that be outside the workplace.

If you're working 8+ hours a day, I think the raw numbers make it difficult to get substantial face-to-face interaction time outside of work, with people you don't live with. You'd need to be militant about planning an outing every evening.

I know someone who wakes up every morning at 4 am (so for her it's mornings rather than evenings) for either her breakfast club, running group, morning dance party (this is a thing, called Daybreaker), dodge ball league, etc.

Maybe you're like her. I'm not. If I don't meet people at work, I'm alone most days.

[kitsunesoba]

This is true, and I think it highlights a major structural flaw in our society. Our lives really shouldn't be as dominated by our jobs as they are, particularly with how productivity has skyrocketed in the past several decades.

[flappyeagle]

Do you choose to work less than full time?

[kitsunesoba]

Not currently. I could probably afford to in the short term but it would entail abandoning any notion of long term savings.

[bluefirebrand]

It's worth pointing out that this is not a real choice in any meaningful way, because of the pressures of reality.

If you could work less but earn the same amount then it actually becomes a real choice to work less.

But if you work less and there are financial tradeoffs involved, the hardship caused by those tradeoffs essentially means you are forced to choose to continue working the same amount. Not a real choice.

Very few people earn enough money to actually choose to work less.

[Wowfunhappy]

> Very few people earn enough money to actually choose to work less.

I don't believe that.

I don't know GP's income, but I'd hazard a guess that most Hacker News users are making significantly above the median income in their country of residence. To the individual who has gotten used to a certain lifestyle, it may well feel as though they need as much money as they have, but there are lots of people who live on much less.

That means people are choosing to prioritize their current lifestyles over working less. And that's fine, but it is absolutely a choice!

(I do think culture has a roll to play as well—when 40 hours is the expectation, going down to 30 often means more than the 25% pay cut it logically should entail. But the fact remains that people don't do it.)

[dorchadas]

I think this is somewhat dependent on where you live. I've noticed that since I've moved to Ireland it's easier to get face-to-face interaction outside the workplace. Granted, it all involves the pubs, which is another issue, but it's much more doable because people go there just to have a pint and chat. I can go down to the one closest to me and just start chatting with any of the old people there, and they're usually happy to do so. Couldn't do that in America, sadly (except in my hometown one where I already knew the people).

[soiler]

It's the same for me. I want to work from home, at least most days, but then it's quite difficult to actually get out and see people. Past jobs have provided the bulk of my social interaction, unfortunately. Now it's kind of lose-lose, because commuting by car 4+ days/wk is horseshit and intolerable. But my friend group has shrunk significantly and I keep coming up empty-handed when I try to create regular hangouts that I actually enjoy.