[dQw4w9WgXcQ]

> I stepped back and started to match the effort they were putting in

How did you do it? Have you created an Excel spreadsheet and questioned them about their degree of effort, which you then compared to your level of effort? You added everything up and your column was higher than their column?

I went through this approximately a year before you. Loneliness in this period is caused by your slow response to external change, as well as life telling you to make a life for yourself.

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What a patronising response.

[trieste92]

congrats, this was probably the most awful thing I've read this week