[jimbokun]

My parents, who still live in the same small US town I grew up in, still live this way. Relatives who still live in the area, and random friends made over decades, will randomly drop by to say hello.

This is especially good for my Dad, who due to health issues has very restricted mobility. I know his mental health would be much worse without this dynamic.

But in the city where I live, that’s not really possible. Friendly with neighbors and enjoy talking to them, but inviting myself for a tea or coffee isn’t really a thing.

I do have friend groups and support, especially through my church. But it’s not the same as what you describe or what my parents still have.