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by rnosov 1211 days ago
Hmmm, ChatGPT seems to work even as date coach. It gave me sensible answer using a rephrased prompt from your website: "Propose question to discuss, an activity to do and a self-reflection question for a date"

Would your app do better?

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yep, it would, there is nothing magical though. We collect a lot of context about the couple, and GPT-3 can provide more precise suggestions then. We get some decent bits of info from their diary, feedback and onboarding process

And we also played with dozens of different prompts to choose the one that performs the best.

Like, when I write something as "I felt unpleasant when I noticed that my partner did not provide me enough attention when I told her that I have an issue in my family, I feel that she does not understand well how to support me"

and gave an answer in the feedback like "I want to talk more about how we can support each other in situations we feel down", the GPT-3 was able to pick the context with our guidance and give a question "What steps will you take to ensure that you both feel supported and heard in frustrating situation" for the next date.

And I also think we can bring it to another level with fine-tuning

I see. You might want to explain it somewhere on your landing page. Perhaps a comparison of a more generic ChatGPT responses to the ones your app generates. Otherwise, it's not clear ( for me ) as to why should I download your app when the ChatGPT dispenses endless dating wisdom in the nearby tab.
thanks, it's a good suggestion, we definitely need to play around a little bit to showcase what we do better!