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by gverrilla 1210 days ago
Accepting a partner is not a single-point decision, but a process. You have to know each other, build trust, build joy, etc. I don't think that's the main driver for most women. Smart people will care about who you are, not what you have. Good luck
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> I don't think that's the main driver for most women.

I never asked if it was the only factor.

> Smart people will care about who you are, not what you have.

Smart people don't talk themselves into believing things and then resent them later.

> Good luck

Don't need it.