[cat_plus_plus]

There are millions of lonely guys in decent physical, mental and financial shape who would make devoted husbands and fathers and are actively and obviously looking for a mate. I am sure there are millions of women are like that too, but back when I was looking online around two decades ago, I have never met a normal woman who would give a normal guy some patience to see if initial meeting would grow into a friendship and then a relationship. It always has to be immediate butterflies in the stomach and swept off the feet, meaning that a minority of hunks get all the dates, overwhelmingly without any hope of long term future. I finally met my future wife by accident when I was not looking for a match at all.