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The author reflects on their struggle to discern whether a debate is worth having in a work context, leading them to identify the need to find an equilibrium level of conflict, which can increase efficiency and morale of a team. They argue that this level is rooted internally in an individual's confidence level and emphasise the importance of periodic debates, which can outweigh occasional critical discussions. To find this equilibrium, the author advises a personal principle to only debate the non-linear, i.e., issues that can have a non-linear impact on the organisation, as opposed to those that add incremental value.