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> So people try to convince you for a bit, and if you still refuse, then they leave you alone. It seems like a workable compromise.

And what they forget while doing that is that they are not the only person existing in the universe:

Others will also attempt to convince the very same non-dancing person to dance.

So if you are at a party, sitting at the bar not dancing, you will have to have this discussion like 5 times in a single evening.

And if you enjoy going to parties even though you don't dance and therefore go regularly, then over the decades you will have to have the discussion thousands of times - which isn't a workable compromise anymore but just an annoyance.