[TobyTheDog123]

This is fair take, but I do think there is an additional difference between being emotionally attached to your job, and the content of the post.

I also think there's a big difference between a very high-visibility job like a bus-driver/mail-delivery-worker/mine-worker (where the labor is very accessible/visible to kids), and one in software engineering (my parents work with computers at some company?)

[dgacmu]

You give your kids half the random swag you get. You involve them by letting them see your job, etc. My older kid has eaten in Google cafeterias, comes to my office at cmu after school to hang out and do her homework there, etc. You _want_ them involved at some level. It's part of modeling being an adult.