You yourself say in a different comment that you are currently assessing Element:
https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=34779070. Either you have a formed opinion Matrix, or you don't. Which one is it?
You keep saying Element instead of Matrix, and obviating the whole Matrix ecosystem. Matrix protocol has several server implementations, and many more things around:
https://matrix.org/docs/projects/try-matrix-now