[bitwize]

Gender and physical sex are spectra. Asking someone to enumerate them is like asking them to enumerate the complex numbers. https://cadehildreth.com/gender-spectrum/

Note that this link presents incomplete information as it seems to imply there is only one axis to the gender spectrum.

[yucky]

I'm comfortable being on the other side of the argument from anybody who says biological sex exists on a spectrum and compares the number of sexes to the set of complex numbers.

As to gender, well then it sounds like you're just describing another word for personality. So what exactly is the difference?