[hungryforcodes]

Americans (younger ones anyways), simply don't seem to know how to date to put it bluntly. I've been on Tinder in the US and to a lesser extent Canada, and everyone is hyper demanding and -- particularly women lately -- demand that the other person "proves" this or that (how cool they are, or how worthy of being paid attention to, etc). For hookups Tinder isn't bad, but for relationships it should be avoided at all costs, especially if you are somewhat docile. :P

Badoo and OKCupid are somehwhat better.

In other countries (Europe and Asia say), people date more normally - or as you would expect. "You seem nice, want to meet for coffee?" / "Sure."