Maybe, but for intimacy back in those times, there was plenty of private nature around, where couples could sneak away, while the grandmas watched the kids.
Those days, most of the world lives like this now. Intimacy when you have kids is not the highest priority that overrides everything. Im not saying its not important, just that you don't make life choices based on if we 'can get it on here'. You just have to get creative thats all.
Bonding with your child and thinking about their needs becomes more important.
"Intimacy when you have kids is not the highest priority that overrides everything."
It is not, but it is still missing, when you don't manage to make room and time for it. Because when it is missing for too long, you can loose each other.
(And I have 2 small children btw. and been on the road with them. So I know a bit about "getting creative".)
Bonding with your child and thinking about their needs becomes more important.