[blueflow]

I do it myself, that's why i believe it also works like that for other folks.

If some dancing school complains about the low amount of men I'd shake my head. Sucks for them, but I'm just not into it. Why should it be different for women?

[gabrielgio]

You assume your personal view as the only true view. You give an example which strips away any nuance to the conversation. It only confirms your shortsightedness.

[blueflow]

Its a plausible explanation that requires no form of discrimination or badness to explain the observations.

Also, you could offer a counter-explanation.