[jnsaff2]

Well said. I did something similar.

Being comfortable in your own skin makes you more confident, confidence is attractive. It will snowball from there.

Sometimes learning a skill can help to start yourself on a good path.

For me it was going through the training to get a pilots license. Holding the license in my hands made me proud of myself and it had a ripple effect that set me on a path of self improvement. Got married few weeks ago.