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by throway33 1239 days ago
If you happen to be an intelligent and decent young man from a male-dominated major who legitimately likes helping others who are struggling to learn the subject you're passionate about, how would women in your dating pool, who find those personality traits attractive, discover those things about you?
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And, you will likely never get answers from the other side about how to do such, outside of: do nothing, consult zodiac sign, hope for magic, fate, luck, or a shoulder shrug response.
Maybe they would notice you help whoever asks for it, not just attractive women, and by contrast they would think, "Hey, he seems decent, not like those creeps that only have tutoring sessions for hotties."
>Maybe they would notice

And how would she notice if you weren't in her class? The chances are extremely low compared to if you joined her class and made an effort to socialize with her.

Of course, that's a given. But how would this happen, if you aren't even there to begin with?