If men have to pursue women in "good faith" and not purposefully try to position themselves then I have news for you, 99% of men are 'disrespectful'.
I don't think this will be news to most women
Bing bing bing! We have a winner!
Also these who are pursuing are the only ones who have a shot at relationship, pretty much.
So you are advising that _truly respectful_ males should just remove themselves from the gene pool. Great thinking.
EDIT: please cite a source for "99% of".
I don't think this will be news to most women