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by kerkeslager
1240 days ago
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I'm not sure that there's a pragmatic difference between harming people out of malice and harming people out of self-interest. If someone causes harm out of ignorance (a better word than stupidity, in my opinion), then they can be educated and they'll likely stop causing harm. If someone causes harm out of self-interest or malice, it can be assumed that they'll continue causing that harm and there's no simple remedy. I do think that selfish or malicious people can change, but the solutions take time, and in the mean time they continue to cause harm if not removed from the situation. |
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If someone in your life is motivated out of malice or stupidity -- it is these situations that would seem to require time to remedy. Unlearning abusive behaviors that exceed rational self-interest takes time. Experts report education seems to take 25 years (and more and more all the time)