Any discussion of SQL at scale must include ClickHouse [https://clickhouse.com/docs/en/install#self-managed-install], given it's broad open-source use, integrations available for Spark with JDBC [https://github.com/ClickHouse/clickhouse-jdbc/] or the open-source Spark-ClickHouse Connector [https://github.com/housepower/spark-clickhouse-connector], and capability to scale SQL as a network service.
Disclosure: I work for ClickHouse