[tentacleuno]

That's unnecessarily judgemental and reeks of victim-blaming tbh. Would you say the same to a woman who has been raped?

[barry-cotter]

There is a word for people who voluntarily pay large personal costs to benefit other people. It is “saint”.

[jamesrcole]

They made a factual claim. It is either correct or incorrect. Are you saying it is incorrect?

[thinking4real]

Often the hardest part of being a victim isn’t the victimization, but rather the aftermath that follows.