[taskforcegemini]

what about - The thing they wanted you to say. as well as people trying their best to interpret your words in the worst possible way. It is not always your fault if you were missunderstood

[atoav]

Indeed, but that just means the aspect that twists the message is not under your influence. In this case you can consider to:

A) Say it anyways (bystanders might be your audience, or you might want to be one of many voices who tells them this)

B) Provides you already know your will fall on deaf ears, you could use that knowledge to try a creatively different message that could reach them

C) You just don't waste your energy at all