[Balgair]

Truth! It was 8 months of retching for our first.

It's strange though, after they come, the feelings change. It was important for us to give ourselves the space and permission (?) to want others.

Not saying in any way that they will for you. Please don't take this that way.

Also, best of luck in delivery! It's very very tough, but it's amazing how nature takes over and makes you tougher. For us, it felt like the deepest of magics came in and just took over.