[lotsofpulp]

> It made me sad, if it weren't for my parents I wouldn't be here today.

I am a parent, and I want my kids to feel like they owe me nothing. If they want to help me or or spend time with me, I want it to be because they enjoy it. And I absolutely do not feel that they need to take care of me.

I do not want to become a burden for them in a way that prevents them from doing what they want.