[breakerofbuilds]

Entitlement is a mismatch between expectations.

Frowning upon entitlement will not fix that.

Instead be clear on what to expect. What is the goal of the project. Do you want users, what you expect from them? What do you offer in return?

This must be clearly communicated even before a newcomers starts spending time learning the project, because then they have already invested time based on their own expectations and assumptions.