[fragmede]

Just work a little bit harder! You'll make it! If you didn't make it you just didn't try hard enough?

That's pretty fucking toxic and is why the video game industry is such a cesspool of broke dreams. But don't take my word for it. https://www.videogameschronicle.com/news/ea-exec-says-toxic-... is as much a place to start as any

[sph]

Take an idea, say it is toxic, compare it to other things that have been called toxic in that world.

There's not much space for intelligent discussion to be had here.