[hutzlibu]

Maybe most kids don't really have a chance of learning what they really want, if all their major life choices are made for them.

"If he didn't play the first 6years, he won't be able to enjoy "jamming" with friends"

Have you ever learned something with passion vs were forced to?

When kids want to learn something, they are really, really fast at it, meaning he could have started learning at that moment. And you can do simple jamming, without a proper musical education.