[mahidol]

This is worrisome - joined Amazon ~4 months ago because it seemed like the most sensible thing to do considering my immigration status. Have one last attempt left at the H-1B lottery; PERM is underway but no hopes of getting it finished before STEM OPT runs out. Was thinking of getting married to my girlfriend soon, but not too sure about that anymore (she's in the 3rd year of her PhD so she cannot really move with me) if I'm going to get axed considering the job market isn't the best either. Not hyped about the prospect of moving to my home country since I have not lived there since I was 9. F*k, life just hasn't been kind these last couple years.

[ferdowsi]

How did you go from 9 to working age without getting residency in the US or another country?

[webo]

US doesn’t give out a permanent residency based on how long you lived in the country. There’s only a few common paths to immigration: employment sponsored (2-20 years), marriage based (1-3 years), other family based (2-20 years), investor based (1-3 years). Student or tourist years don’t matter.

[quasarj]

First experience with the US immigration process, eh?

[A4ET8a8uTh0]

FWIW, it does not seem like an uncommon reaction. My wife had a similar questions bordering on disbelief, when I was giving her a glimpse of current US immigration system based on my experience alone.

[bobthepanda]

The way the current immigration system works is not taught at all in schools. Maybe if you’re lucky you get taught about the Ellis Island days where all you had to do was prove you had enough money not to starve and not have any signs of infectious disease like tuberculosis.

[Firmwarrior]

It's pretty wild. I'm a US citizen, and getting my Japanese wife a green card took years and thousands of dollars. I wish people understood how ridiculous the system is before they went out and voted about it.

Stuff like how the government would just randomly send me a letter and say "Hey, asshole, give us another $800." In my case it's like "OK" but for most Americans living paycheck-to-paycheck that would be a catastrophic event

[ferdowsi]

No, my parents were immigrants and I have multiple relatives who came to the United States as children and gained residency.

[mahidol]

my parents' GC didn't go through until well after I turned 21.

[junar]

* Come to the US as an H-4 dependent of H1-B parents

* Age out at 21: H-4 no longer valid, green card process delayed because of country-specific quota

* F-1 student visa gives you a few more years, but still no path to residency

https://www.npr.org/2021/08/01/1023393351/documented-dreamer...

[sbierwagen]

TPS visa maybe.