[yogsototh]

As other had said, you only way is honesty. The hard one.

If you have so much to get out of your chest, you should may ask the help of a mediator.

But in the end, there shouldn't be something you didn't tell him. Be clear about what you expected and how much you were disappointed. And also be clear about your point of view about him going full time.

If you can't find a mediator, the best way of telling him is by writing a list of facts. Try your best not to use judgment value. Just facts, then what you want and what you don't want.

If I understand correctly, your ideal situation would be for him to quit the startup for free. But let him explain his point of view. After a long discussion you might find a solution.

[throwfrustrated]

I'm starting to realize this may be the only way to go for me to feel good about the whole thing. Thanks.