[Ken_At_EM]

You’re right.

Secondary point, if you can’t make time to have coffee for someone for an entire month, it probably isn’t important enough to do, ever.

[gajus]

That's just not true. You shouldn't take offense to this at all. People have busy schedules.

[Ken_At_EM]

Almost no one has too busy of a schedule to not squeeze in a 30-60 minute conversation over coffee within a month.

If I ask someone to coffee and their response is, next month? I’d take it as a clear signal that the content of our conversation or our relationship is not important.

[duxup]

I don’t think it is offensive.

I think it is that “next month” is probably an indication of importance and “next month” will be busy too / the importance of a message you want an AI to spam back… still not important.

[gajus]

Also, "coffee" is like the most generic thing someone could ask for. The more generic the ask, the harder to schedule.