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Can we start a support group for this, please?

I think “AA” is already taken.

For real though, thanks for mentioning this. It is something I struggle with. I know I’m not “supposed” to be like that. I read the comments in HN. I read the books. I read the blog posts. Hell, my undergrad was at Temple U’s college of education in small group dynamics and conflict resolution. I know how I am “supposed” to act. And yet, I am still “that guy” as if being “that guy” were my job.