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Thanks, I appreciate it, and am happy to hear that your own experience was far more positive than our own.

I take comfort that my father's wishes were to spend his final few months at home and die there. It took a herculean effort on behalf of all of us to pull it off, pulling 24 hour bedside shifts for months took a toll. But we all have zero regrets about it, and despite the grief, was a very beautiful way to honor and support him.