[JamesSwift]

Yep. The randomness. And the helplessness of others (speaking as the relative of the cancer patient). Its just a terrible feeling all around.

[jacquesm]

Yes, the helplessness is terrible. It's one of the things I've really had to face up close recently and there is no really good way to deal with it.

[JamesSwift]

If it helps you feel better, I have no idea either : )

Cancer sucks.