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by eastbound 1293 days ago
>> I don’t know how to complain properly

> Oh I don't know, I think you're doing a fine job of it.

:D If I knew, I would address the issues with the right person and solve them.

So I ended up speaking to computers instead. The rest is so dark that I shouldn’t tell it online, but honestly, you should stop being hateful towards anybody. Any human. Anyone. Don’t do that. Hard no. You are creating hate when you hate people. And man millionaires can be as violent as any other man, as uncaring, as ... We’re no special race. Wasn’t born with a silver spoon either, I was making the point that it was hard work and no life balance that led me here, not privilege or inheritance, just good sustained work, moving until it worked, and lacking social attachment. So I’m gonna go back to my computer and try forgetting about how people like you intentionally ruined my life.

Don’t.

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> you should stop being hateful towards anybody.

Explain to me how I am being hateful? I do not hate you, I do not know you. I am merely pointing out that you are complaining about problems you know that you have. If you just want to complain, that's fine, but if you want to fix these problems then it might be good to seek out counselling, a psychologist, a medical professional, someone who can help you

> Wasn’t born with a silver spoon either,

I never said you were.

> So I’m gonna go back to my computer and try forgetting about how people like you intentionally ruined my life.

If you view people who critique your opinions as "ruining your life", then that problem lies with you, not them. You are giving them power over you that they do not really have.

It is nobody's responsibility to make you happy. Only you have that power. You are the master of your own destiny.

Here is a youtube channel I highly recommend, I implore you to watch this man's videos. I found them enlightening.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0UeJzbx1iu0 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o1G4JFuLlO8