[brewtide]

Remember that your overall purpose of life is to simply live it. Let go of your inner expectations ('long term goals') and exist. New long term goals will appear in a new direction as they see fit, and if you have interest, work on those. When those change, continue onward.

Long term is simply 'in this period when I'm alive". We don't know this duration. Ease up on yourself, breathe and enjoy what interests you.

Obviously 5hing changes when you/it you have children, but tia but another path to be pursued if it arises!