[krastanov]

I am quite confused by your phrasing. What "quiet part"? This has never been a quiet part. There has always been a self-consistent view of the world in which employers have been asked to respond for perceived immoral behavior among their employees, even if that behavior has little to do with their job. Nothing here is new. You can argue whether that world view is itself moral, but it is silly to claim it is not a fairly standard or common world view that plenty of people consider "obvious and correct".

On the other hand, it is certainly worthwhile to discuss what actually deserves such heavy-handed treatment, but that needs to be an honest and polite and patient conversation.