[agumonkey]

It's not only social anxiety that forbids people. It's also failed relationships that bruise your desire to try again. In my case I failed people enough time not to want to bother someone else :)

[bgroat]

It's interesting to me that you think you failed people.

I roll my eyes when I hear quotes like, "Judge a fish by it's ability to fly and you'll think it's a failure"... but there is something to that.

Maybe you're chocolate and those people just prefer vanilla?