[pmarreck]

> I din’t want to be perceived as gay

I'm pretty sure that unless they catch you making out with a dude, the jury will forever be out on whether you're gay or not, I think this is between you and your insecurity frankly

I've gotten more suspicious looks walking into a place alone than I have with 1 friend.

[llanowarelves]

Your psychologizing and shaming would be more effective if the OP wasn't responding to a comment that literally says as a gay man these non-gay photos (of men doing less) read to him as gay.

Which begs the question: who knows more about gay stuff? Him or you?