[zwkrt]

The idea that gay people having more social standing and more rights has somehow ruined straight relationships is laughable. You’re saying that when being gay was literally a criminal offense straight guys didn’t have to worry about holding hands?

[tifik]

> ruined

Parent didnt say or even suggest that.

> when being gay was literally a criminal offense straight guys didn’t have to worry about holding hands

He's making an observation. Have you been to Turkey at around the same and have a different experience?

[dmitriid]

You are completely misreading what the person said.

Holding hands between people of the same gender is now seen as a sign of a gay relationship (aka: couples holding friends). Therefore holding hands is no longer the sign of just friendship.

This is especially true in countries like Turkey where being gay is not really accepted.

[cookieswumchorr]

well, yes. Having gay sex was criminal, holding hands was totally fine. Hell, forget holding hands, how about kissing each other on the lips? This used to be an acceptable behavior for straight folks. Remember the Brezhnev-Honecker portrait?

[emptyfile]

>You’re saying that when being gay was literally a criminal offense straight guys didn’t have to worry about holding hands?

Is that really so shocking to you? You can observe this in any Arab Muslim country today.