[f1refly]

xmpp doesn't really have a core - even the messages are more or less an extension. The whole point of xmpp is "each to his own extend", so your "missing features" are in reality "nice addons that most clients have but if you'd like to bring your own homebrew that's fine too" which is how I think more networks should operate. Have the features, but gracefully fall back when the client's don't support them.