[quesera]

I agree with you, because in the real world I do need to talk to people -- and people come in all psychological shapes and sizes!

But on the flip side, there are few things I personally dislike more than being spoken to by someone who is being cautious of my feelings.

It's slow. It's tedious. Most of them are bad at it. And honestly it's more disrespectful to imagine that you are going to upset me, than to just bravely take that risk.

I concede that I'm the weird one. But we do exist.