[ars]

> Of course, the process of going through labor pains for many hours might make things even between the two...

It's not. Labor pain is more time limited and the mother is kind of "out of it", and doesn't usually remember it clearly - plus there's a prize at the end :)

C-section pain is worse, and it lasts several weeks exactly at a time when the mother needs to do stuff. It's worse in every way.

[aikinai]

My understanding is that when things progress naturally, the mother’s body and mind should be in a state that helps them cope with the pain, but it doesn’t reduce it or help you forget anything.

My wife remembers every instant of all of her births.