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by vladvasiliu 1328 days ago
I don't think it's a question of "feeling compelled to say yes", or even being afraid to say no.

To me, the advice is more like "be open to new experiences / be willing to take a chance on the unknown". That doesn't mean you should always say yes to everyone because you're afraid of what they might think of you / might not like you / you owe them anything / etc.