| I think the nice thing is you’ve already taken the first step: 1) understand what is truly meaningful to you In other words, on your death bed, did you do what you wanted to do? Once you’ve figured that out, then you can start orienting your life towards those things. Start with one small atomic change per week. If you keep that up, imagine how great your life will be. Vs if not, where will you go to? You have a son, so that motivation is there. Kids will test your patience, and patience defines parenting, just like commitment defines a relationship. So you need to be at your best. Changing your life for the better is one of the hardest things you can do, so start small, give yourself time, and celebrate each win. I think in no time you can be ready to be feeling amazing and ready to be an amazing parent. |