[Tade0]

Looking back I see some benefit to doing extra - for example my toddler had no issue with weaning or adapting to daycare, which I heard is usually a problem.

We didn't implement independent sleeping and getting rid of the pacifier though(so far).

I believe that ultimately people usually try to do their best and there's no sense in beating yourself up about it or worse - someone else.

[rtlfe]

Yeah for sure try stuff out. But if it turns out to be hard, be willing to stop without feeling bad about it.