[oliverbennett]

Successful people (judged by their own metrics of success) are generally willing to make short term sacrifices for long term gains.

My reluctance / fear / discomfort often isn’t even recognisable to myself for a while. If and when I do act on it, it quickly subsides and I can do stuff I that’s in some sense still uncomfortable, but that I seem to genuinely enjoy even in the moment - making things, experiencing novelty, being challenged etc. And yet my brain hasn’t put that together.

I sometimes set a repeating personal alarm* that just asks ‘are you doing what you’re meant to be doing?’. I’ll try framing some of how I answer that around discomfort / sacrifice from now on.

*I usually use it when talking with people who meander/derail conversations as much as I do, and we recognise it’s a problem.