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I mean, what you are describing is still assimilation [0]. The way to get there can be multifold, but concepts like not being toxic (which seems harder to accept) and providing value instead of making joke-comments (which seems to be accepted somewhat readily) still need to be adopted by new people.

This is exactly how it should be, but it’s also a way that, at least IMO, does not scale and stopped working properly.

[0]: the process of assimilating new ideas into an existing cognitive structure