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by matwood 1354 days ago
Good point. Another comment mentioned therapy which could help the OP look inward.

Running around thinking that everyone else is the problem is never a recipe for success. My favorite thought whenever I feel myself slipping into that mode is to think 'do I want to be right or effective'. It immediately puts me in an in control, empathetic, problem solving mindset.