[atq2119]

While I agree that nobody should have to put up with that sort of treatment, demanding an apology is not going to work. Couple's therapy might help if you manage to find a good one, but frankly chances are low and he should mentally prepare himself to move out and potentially fight for custody.

[naijaboiler]

Or just accept that's his role as man, even though matte modern feminism tries to tell you otherwise

[atq2119]

Some people might be happy with that role, and sure, if it works for them, great!

But I do think it's quite reasonable to expect more from life and relationships. Women tend to expect more, and society doesn't tell them not to.

It's possible to have a self-consistent worldview that does tell both men and women to expect less, but personally I think that would make for a worse society.