[throwawaysleep]

I think it is more that many men don't consider the benefits worth the effort. Plenty of men are happy living in an old building playing video games all day. Don't need a lot of money for that.

They need a better reward than just a nicer career to consider it worth it.

[throwaway5959]

Honestly fellow throwaway, that sounds pretty nice.

[throwawaysleep]

Admittedly, if I end up never having a relationship/family, I could walk away from anything intense in 5-10 years pretty easily.